Where To Go On A First Date With A Girl?

One question that I hear a lot from guys is where to go on a first date. Most guys make the dreaded mistake of taking girls out to an expensive restaurant and/or a movie on their first date. Please, please guys, if you don't learn anything else from me, I hope that you learn that this is a costly (In more ways than one) mistake for a first date. The problem with taking a first date to these types of places (aside from the obvious expense) is the fact that this type of activity does nothing to build any type of interaction between you and your date and does not promote any sort of emotional attraction. If you try to create a "special date" with someone when there is still no emotional connection (because you are unfamiliar each other) you are actually subconsciously creating pressure on yourself and your date which will only make you both feel uncomfortable.

My suggestion to guys who want to know where to go on a first date is to save your money (and your nerves) and take your date to places that are fun (and coincidentally inexpensive) where you can interact with your date and get to know each other better. Mainly, it's important to go to someplace that is comfortable and fun so that your date immediately begins to build memories that connect the two of you to fun and intimate situations where you actually interact with each other. So our goal then is to: Focus on places to go on a first date that can be memorable and fun where the two of you can interact and create memories. This creates an emotional as well as a physical connection between the two of you.

Okay, so I already know that your next question is going to be, what kind of places fit this criteria? The easy way to come up with good first date activities is to think of places where you might normally hang out for fun or relaxation. They must also be places where you can interact with your date on a personal level. I'll give you a few suggestions to start with and that should get your creativity flowing.

Action Dates: These kind of dates can be great for interaction and creating a bond with a new girl. When you do activities together on a date you will subconsciously feel as if you have spent more time with someone which makes the other person seem more familiar and comfortable to be around. performing activities together also helps to build more interest in the other person. Just remember to keep in mind the type of girl you are dating and how much action she may (or may not) be up for. Good places to take your first date for an action date are: miniature golf, bowling, pool hall, carnival. Good places for action dates would be anywhere that you can take part in a mutually enjoyable activity, but still take the time to talk and get to know each other.

Intellectual/Cultural dates: Such as Art Shows, Science museums, Funky Shops or Flea Markets: These can be particularly fun and silly dates that can be extremely lighthearted and memorable. You will find endless things to talk about (as well as laugh about) on this type of date, plus you and your date will more than likely continue to talk (and laugh) about these dates for quite a while.

Intimate dates: Cappuccino, Espresso Bar or Coffee Shop: You can't go wrong with a first date in a trendy coffee shop. This makes for a classy and best of all affordable and comfortable first date destination. It is also an intimate setting where you can get close to your date, have interesting conversation and build a mutual bond and attraction. Scope out a unique and intimate little location that will spark interesting conversation and be memorable.

So there you have it guys, Some fun, relaxed and excellent suggestions for where to go on a first date.